Justin Lane Janes - Online Memorial Website

Thank you for visting our handsome, wonderful, and precious young Son, Grandson, Big Brother, Nephew and Friends memorial site. Please lit a candle or leave a memory as this will keep his memory alive for all of those who loved him more than words can describe. 

This memorial website is in memory of our precious Justin Lane who was born in Bluefield, WV on October 29, 1987 and passed away on November 26, 2007 at the age of 20, as a result of a automobile accident, with his friend Matthew Wrenn.  They were returning home from an evening of deer hunting on that day.  Those left to cherish his memory include his mother Angelia Harper  of Oak Hill, WV and his father Tom Janes of Port St. Lucie Fl ; a brother Dylan Harper  who adored his big brother; maternal  Grandparents, Carl and Rachel Haga; Paternal grandmother, Lynda Janes.; great-grandmother, Leota Weston ; Two aunts, Lynn Smith and Beth Robbins and her husband, Donnie; an uncle, Buck Haga ; His church family at the Mullens Church of God, and a host of freinds.  You will live forever in our memories and hearts.

 The Cord

   We are connected, My child and I,

  By an invisible cord, Not seen by the eye.

It's not like the cord that connects us til birth,

   This cord can't be seen by any on earth.

 This cord does it's work right from the start,

  It binds us together, Attached to my heart.

I know that it's there, Though no one can see,

 The invisible cord from my child to me.

The strength  of this cord is hard to describe,

  It can't be destroyed, It can't be denied.

It's stronger than any cord man could create,

 It withstands the test, Can hold any weight.

   And though you are gone and not here with me,

 The cord is still there, But no one can see.

It pulls at my heart, I am bruised..I am sore,

 But this cord is my life line, As never before.

I am thankful that god connects us this way,

A mother and child...Death can't take that away!

                                 ~ Author Unknown

I can't get over you,

Because I carried you for nine long months, and

you where there, right under my heart.

I can't get over you,

 Because I felt your butterfly flutterings and your tiny taps,

to let me know that you were part of me, and my life forever.

I can't get over you,

 Because I fell in love with you the very second

that I knew you were there, and I knew that we where forever one.

I can't get over you,

 Because I heard your first cry as you entered this world,

And because I held your body so close to my heart.

I can't get over you because, I heard your first burp, and kissed

your head for the first time.

I can't get over you,

Because I saw your first tear as it fell upon your cheek

and because you looked at me with such trusting loving eyes,

that made me the center of your world.

I can't get over you, my precious child,

because I saw your first steps and heard your first laugh,

 I held you so tightly, and rocked you through the night.

I can't get over you,

Because you trusted me to love and take care of you.

I can't get over you because you were, and still are, my child.

I will never get over you,

Because I am your mother,

And I will love you forever,

I will never get over you!

                                    ~ Author Unknown

 He Only Took My Hand Mom

Last night while I was sleeping, my son's voice I did hear

I opened my eyes and looked in his room
But Justin didn't appear

He said:
"Mom you've got to listen,you've got to understand
God didn't take me from you, he only took my hand

When I called out in pain that night, he instantly reached down,
took my hand and pulled me gently to his side,
lifted me up and saved me from all the misery and pain inside.
My body hurt so badly, I could never be the same

My search is really over now
I've found happiness within, all the answers to my empty
dreams and all that might have been

I love and miss you soooo very much, I'll always be near by
My body's gone forever
But my spirit will never die

So you must go on now and live one day at a time
Until we meet again

Just understand:

God didn't take me from you, he only took my hand!!!!

                                                                                                         Unknown

 I Hear Each Tear Fall On Her Face

My Mom doesn't know I'm watching her
but I'm watching her just the same.
And I hear each tear fall on her face
at the very mention of my name.

She says it sounds like music to her ears
and can be heard over a crowd.
Oh, I hear each tear fall on her face
when my name is said aloud.

I watch her stumble through each day
as she wishes the day would end.
And I hear each tear fall on her face
as she talks of me to her friends.

But there are few who truly understand
Oh this I've heard her proclaim.
And I hear each tear fall on her face
Will my Mom ever be the same?

I know that her smiles light up a sky
But, I don't see that smile today.
Oh, but I hear each tear fall on her face.
Her blue skies turned to gray.

Oh, I send to her my warmest hug
with the rays of the morning sun.
Then, I won't hear a tear fall on her face
For I shall erase them one by one.

Yes, my Mom doesn't know I'm watching her.
But I'm watching her just the same.
And if I hear a tear fall on her face
I'll just softly whisper her name!
 

This was your 2nd Christmas 1988. You spent this year at Momaw and Popaw Haga's house.  You were fascinated with this one present.  

From where we reign,we thank you so
For your kind remembrance of us and our families below
We had a beautiful day,cause all were there
Yes you too,were with us, in mind,heart and prayer
As we are not forgotten,neither are you
We busy ourselves with much to do
New souls arrive on a daily basis
And we gather with them,cause their families they miss
We show them how love continues to grow
By connecting our loved ones to soften the blow
You see, their hearts are broken,they are in so much pain
And we rejoice when our efforts are not in vain
Continue to hold each other up,it's when we're happiest here
We relish the laughter ,never the tears

Thank you for everything,there was much joy in Heaven Love and God Bless
 Nicky and Angie and their families